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Darling Nikki

Chemistry and Human Nature

Written by Darling Nikki | 20 January 2009

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Well let me introduce myself; I'm a little darling, (most of the time) - Darling Nikki.. I don't B.S. and I prefer straightforward people over phony/uptight people ANY day. I'm kinda like the girl next door but not quite. Lol I guess that depends on which 'hood u live in. I am both; I'm that girl (woman) next door, and quite the opposite.
 
Sorry, no whips and chains. I live in what is considered an affluent area on the outskirts of a busy city. The very city I grew up in. I've gone from one extreme to another. I'm definitely not in Kansas anymore.
 
Not a lot surprises me. But yeah, I still get fooled once in awhile. I give some people too much credit (in business and personal aspects, friendship or otherwise) only to realize afterwards that I was way off base. Hindsight is 20/20 and I do believe that for as long as we are alive, we are always learning. We've all been the Monday morning quarter back, asked ourselves "wtf was I thinking??", "why did I do/allow that?", "how could I not see that HUGE red flag or worse, FLAGS??"  Needless to say (not that I over indulge) but as a side note: Alcohol does nothing to improve one's judgement - of anything. I wasn't referring to just sex. While I'm on the topic though, I find that the best sex is while sober, one or two drinks is okay too. I know men that say that they WON'T have sex with a woman if she is drunk.. I'm not so sure I buy that.. Hmmm - some of them might be telling the truth..
 
I have had more male friends than girl friends since I was 13. Most girls were bitchy, jealous and a few wanted to beat me up. Ahhhh High School. Not much has changed but I do have more girlfriends now than I once did. As for my guy pals? Do most of them want to fu#k me? Yes, at one time or another, but they usually give up and decide that I'm cool enough to have as a friend. Other guys high tail b/c they just don't see the point. And I do tell them - "it ain't gonna happen" - apparently, for some, my wit and charm is not compelling enough to stick around if there's no sex on the horizon lol.
 
I understand - I mean - does anyone like rejection?? Mind you, talk about tenacity - a few held out hope for a long time thinking they might just suddenly "grow" on me, and I'd suddenly say "hey, can we get naked?". It doesn't work that way. Not with me, and many are still friends with me to this day. They know where things stand and are cool with it. They're like the brothers I never had. And I guess that makes me the slightly wild sister they never had, (because their sisters wouldn't tell them what I tell them!)

I know in the first few MINUTES of meeting a man, if there's horizontal potential. Not saying right that minute or day that its going to HAPPEN, but if that "potential" is there - there's no question. It goes like this; you size him up - body type (gotta look after yourself guys), shoulders, height, face, eyes. A nice smile and good teeth help! Ok, that took 60 seconds - he's a contender -After the haze clears, & assuming that all that has hit the radar, that's where the "P word" comes in. No, not Penis :)!! Does he HAVE a Personality? A confident, (but not arrogant) engaging personality? That's the tricky part. Some guys give it up right away - they are the village idiot, no holds barred, and they will fu#k anything with a pulse. (Married guys? That's another story altogether- - - rich, married guys?? - the worst of the lot).

The lookers though, they're usually pretty savvy. Their "take it or leave it attitude" can have women lining up...But before I say another word; if he's wearing white dress shoes and a white belt (one or both of those), I don't care what he looks like ; lol GET AWAY. That and the Geico lookalike caveman guy who tried to pick me up one night when I was out.. excessive hair?? get rid of it.. Ok, where was I? Oh ya, hot guys - they KNOW that they have allure and its not really much work for them to meet women. And how convenient, women are so aggressive these days - they (the guys - ummm I'm talking about the hot guys) just have to stand there and it (for the most part) just "happens".

Yaya - she wants you. Body language gives up so much in no time flat. I have met 2 or 3 men that were very attractive and had the I.Q's of a parking meter. Porch light's "on", nobody's home! I think men are more forgiving (@least on a short term basis - some long term) when the "parking meter personality/I.Q" factors in. Then there's the nice guys, they're less than average to average looking - where do they usually finish? LAST - just like the saying goes. I didn't say ALL the time, I said usually. Its a shame, but it's also a reality. A select few possess such character and personality that they are not in the least hindered by the fact that they don't have the immediately noticeable "it" factor.

And if they've got cash, (and no looks or personality) for many women - that alone seals the deaI. That guy is da bomb! I have met many men, and no two are quite alike. But if you've ever felt real passion/attraction even just once - (and I mean reciprocated passion)-- it is a magical mix of many components but the main one is the attraction. Hot body, (this can vary ofcourse depending on your idea of "hot"), great kisser, fun to be with, fun in bed (or in the change room of a department store- or on the deck of a secluded cottage when its raining, thundering and lightning works too) - they are just fun and there's the "want" that you feel. There's nothing like that. It's electric and magnetic. And it's rare. You never forget that person or persons, umm depending on your numbers!! You can look right into their eyes when they are climaxing. That's hot. I will leave you with that. Chemistry 101 - over and out-- til next time.   Darling Nikki

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