Darling Nikki
| 11 February 2009
Someone that I know (but not well) asked me recently if I have any fetishes. By definition, I'd have to say that "no, I don't". I think he was hoping for a different answer 
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So sorry to disappoint. He'll never really 'know' anyway.
Let's see. In my humble opinion, here's a few (samples of) "what's hot", and "what's not" points, when it comes to sexual interactions.
HOT:
In Personality: Confidence, not arrogance. A guy that is comfortable discussing almost anything, and does so with intelligence.1. A guy that enjoys sex and says so. Talking dirty, but not too raunchy is a big turn on. A flirty, playfulness - he's fun and easy to get along with, in or out of bed. (If @ his place) sometimes he greets you at the door with just a towel, fresh out of the shower. There's a few "greetings" that are pretty hot. That works both ways.
2. Hair pulling/grabbing or restraining a little. That's fun; but nothing so rough that it hurts.
3. Optional; to keep a hot little thong on, and pull it aside. Wearing boots, stay up stockings (and keeping them on). Black, white or fishnet. They all work. Take a few pictures - if you trust the person.
4. Watching.. mirrors if they're around. Getting kissed on the navel, hips and butt-cheeks.
5. Vibrators, toys - always good to have as an option but not necessary. Flavored lube is nice too. It can really add to the fun.
6. He's a good kisser.. And when it comes to "coming", ladies first. A guy that will let a woman watch him get himself off. And/Or he wants to watch you bring yourself to orgasm.
7. A nice little glistening sweat.. Hot body, a bit slippery.. Delicious.
8. This doesn't have to be long and drawn out. But hey if there's time, teasing is pretty fun.
PS: Even some text messages are pretty juicy.
NOT:
In Personality: Jealousy/insecurity. A stiff. Insensitive. Judgemental. Or just mental (wink).1. Silence or little communication during sex. We all want some feedback/interaction. This is no time to dummy up.
2. Detached, Mechanical movements, like he's all by himself grinding a pillow or a blow up doll. If this is the case: he ought to be by himself. He's no FUN. Go..Get out.3. A guy that keeps his socks on (assuming the sex is in bed).
4. A guy that wears a condom and still pulls out when he comes?? Go Away!
5. Excessive body hair (go wax or shave!) and dripping sweat a few minutes into things, like a marathon runner (can't stand it).
6. If he has to stop NUMEROUS times (once/twice is okay) because he comes too quick, or worse, if he actually comes in 3 or 4 minutes and thinks a good time was had by all. And he's not just having an "off" day. It's standard operating procedure. He didn't even trrrry to stop himself. No thanks. Fire that man, lol. No more invites.
There's more but I think I made a few good points.
Simple Enough?
Darling Nikki
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