Where to start ....My buddy wanted me to write about some seasonal shit.
The only thing seasonal I notice is the drain on my wallet for gifts. Okay thats not the only thing, I do find the month of December alot like weddings , funerals, and other needy times. Women tend to call that you have not heard from all year.
It's always the same hey how you been? Still single ? We should get out for a drink? What thay are really saying is the Christmas season is here I am alone and lonely. I started to notice it a few years ago now it is down right clear , when December hits the phone starts to ring. Any how I will let you know how it goes lol.
I was thinking about writing on the average guys guide to picking up women. I have seen it all some of the plainest guys having women fall backward for them . The bottom line is women are nesters and men are the hunter gatherers. Women love confident, slightly aggresive men who know what they want . If you can pull the personna off even if you are full of shit you will get laid. A little self maintaince goes along way too guys. I am telling you the more you cut throught the bullshit the better. There is also the laid back approach where you are just there to listen be a friend this approach works as well but takes longer and sometimes back fires when Mr aggresive sweeps her out form under you.
The bottom line is you have to get out there approach women. Talk to them, take a chance! Do not be affraid to smile and say hi to the knock out. There is a good chance she has a hard time meeting laid back guys because men are intimidated by their looks. There is also the time to realize it is just not going there with that girl cut your loses and move on there is always another one around the corner. Don't be afraid to use alittle chivalry even in these days women still like to be treated nice. Hey if things don't go the way you wanted with a girl and you have realised it is just not going to happen keep the door open never leave mad always maintain that laid back attitude because sooner than later she may just introduce you to a friend of hers.
Remember practice makes perfect always be a gentleman, no really mens no. Get out there talk to the women notice her shoes, her hair, listen to what she has to say ask about it . Let her know you are focused on her. It takes time sooner or later you get a feel for it you find a way to bring the naughty side out of women just for the fun of it . Women are human to they are raunchier than us they just don't like to let us know i . The bootom line is even if 10 girls turn you down to dance even if you end up dancing with the chubby girl at least you are dancing.
This is more a general statement but after an afternoon romp in Travel Lodge only to be interrupted by something to eat and a swim. I have certainly found the sex to be hotter more focused. As I sit here wondering I have concluded the combination of a little bit of excitement being somewhere unfamiliar, having fun when the rest of the world is working, no everyday distractions of life such as phones, kids, work.
You can just focus on the other person. Completely on sex. Maybe that is why I have found sex in others beds so much better I am not thinking of their neighbors, or my phone or kids. Just how hard can I fuck this girl. How good can I make her feel. So for any of you that care to read and your sex life is ho hum. I highly suggest saving your relationship by sneaking out for an afternoon meeting at a hotel, motel, inn. Whatever and seriously fucking your brains out for a few hours. Let everyone wonder where you are. It will most certianly bring so excitement back to your relationship.
So just to get this off my chest as I have many times before. DO NOT HAVE KIDS OUT OF WED LOCK
It's just 20 years of pulling your hair out LOL. Kids just grow up better with a mom and a dad I have allways found that the practice of making them is where all the fun is. Don't get me wrong love mine like there is no other, fuck would I have done it different, maybe not lol. You know the Karma of it all is that I have a girl, you would think I would gain a little more respect for the opposite sex . mmmmmmmmm maybe a little.
Unpaid bar tabs
I don't know how but twice now I have gone back to a bar I have not been to in a long while not only do they remember me but they want money as well lol. I am sure it must have something to do with a bartender I forgot to call back. Or promised a little to much to and didn't come through. I will tell you this lesson I have learned "don't promise a damn thing"
Fuck it not much to say this week other than it is still having as much fun as the first time picking up a women from the bar and having her back to your hotel room after. Especially with an audience. I don't know why it just makes it that much more fun with someone else in the room . Allmost like you are being extra naughty. I can remember fucking in a hot tub with another couple watching I did not know the other women so well it was a real turn on to fuck that hard and have another women watch us.
There is more to it but it has to do with a baby sitter when I was just a kid .......The scars she left have left me always looking for excitment .......Always a little over the deep side
On a final note I am sleeping with this cute little nurse from time to time . She likes to get her hands around my throat for a change. Thats a fucking turn on ..........OOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH how i love you nasty little creatures...
So I stopped writing this shit because "who cares?".
Then shit happens and you say fuck I got to share this one.
What I want to know is, what is it about the friends who want to try something and try their best to convince you it is in yourb best interests to do it or even worse your idea or need?
I don’t know about the rest of you out there but I have had it!!
I grew up in a Country I believed in a place I felt safe . Even when I did not agree with our leaders I trusted them not to sell out the country from under us. What the fuck happened?
All right I am back . I am a little calmer than my last blog . Back to thinking obout the things that keep me feeling young . THE LOVE OF THE GAME .......I used to be on of those guys that allways cared what others where thinking about me , how I looked , what I was supposed to be doing to keep up with society .....
y how I will let you know how it goes lol. 
