The Womanizer Blog - TheLife and Sexual experiences
| 25 January 2009
Okay here it goes if you really want to get laid on line you need to follow a few simple rules:1. Put your picture up a recent one that really does look like you. Not one without your shirt on , or if you are a women wearing next to nothing. Come across somewhat level headed you picture is the seller.
2. Take it all with a grain of salt be absolutely casual, if someone does not get back to your inquiry leave it be NO STALKING. For those of you who don't get that. If you e-mail someone and they don't reply leave them alone.
3. Do not waste your time by chasing women that if you where in a bar would not give you the time of da . Do chase the women whom you truly do have common interests with. That way when you finally do get to talking to one or go out on a date you have common things to talk about that will help the other open up to you much quicker.
4. Be honest the more truth full you are about your intentions the better. Do not go on about marriage kids or even a serious relationship you just meet this person so keep it light. Trust me I have heard the horror stories from women. You morons seem to be able to scare women away in a half an hour conversation.
5. When you do go out, offer to meet somewhere in public so that the women feel safe and are not worried about what your intentions . Chivalry is not dead offer to pay. I suggest a quick coffee, stay away from the alcohol first time out. If you do go for a drink leave it at one or two max. Do not do dinner first time out it is too much time and money invested if there is no attraction. REMEMBER (FOR THE DATING STUPID) Just because a women meets you for a coffee or a drink does not mean that they are your girl friends or do they owe you anything. KEEP IT CASUAL BE POLITE. When the women warm up to you they will lead the conversation in the direction they want it to go. End the first date after no more than two hours. Ask them if it is all right to call. If things have gone well casually say we should go out again.
6. DO NOT CALL THE WOMAN THE NEXT DAY. Leave it a few days. After 2 days send a text or a brief call telling them you had a good time and would like to get out again. Keep the conversation light. This time it can be dinner or a movie ask if they want to meet you or would they rather you pick them up. On this date it is okay to split the bill if it is offered. Again keeping it light try to stay off conversations of ex girl friends wives or kids . Do not seem desperate. Let the woman make the moves. The end of the day we all want the same thing.
7. You may get the offer on the second date to enter their homes if they ask you in play it cool, let her make the moves so she feels safe with you. By the 3rd date you should full well know where things are going if you are not at least kissing each other it is time to cut your losses. Remember be polite, no does mean no, move on do not call, do not stalk. Women like to talk and have friends so be polite respect their space. You never know she may introduce you to a friend or two.
SOME CASUAL RULES
- Be polite
- Always pay first date out, offer on the second
- Be casual, keep it light.
- Do not missrepresent yourself if you are heavy set do not say you are fit.
( you never know a hottie may like a heavy set guy).
- Respect a women’s space do not stalk. No means no......
- When it comes to talking about sex let that women bring it up you will know when the conversation is going that way.
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